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Two Questions you should ask yourself EveryDay before you go to sleep.

  1. “how many people did you make happy today ?”

  2. “how many times did you laugh today”

Just answer these questions and you will have answers to how you can improve yourself, and live LIFE to its potential.

Love

A very touching scene from the movie Devdas – An all time epic Love Story.

come, let us discover once again that innocent childhood..where we decorated our dreams..where we lived our youth..where underneath the shadaow of trees (?) we had built our home(?)….

 

Hilary Duff in a song  Metamorphosis

 Every day is a transformation
Every day is a new sensation
Alteration, modification
An incarnation, celebration
Every day is a new equation
Every day is a revelation
Information, Anticipation
Onto another destination

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Life is what you make of it,

Life is what you take from it,

Looking for lovely quotes on marriages ?

I found this link .. All the quotes here are really great! Loved the way they have presented the quotes.. with no-pop-ups!

  •  “More marriages might survive if the partners realized that sometimes the better comes after the worse.” -Doug Larson
  •  “A successful marriage requires falling in love many times, always with the same person.” -Mignon McLaughlin
  •  “Love requires a willingness to die; marriage, a willingness to live.”
    -Mignon McLaughlin
  • “All married couples should learn the art of battle as they should learn the art of making love. Good battle is objective and honest-never viscious or cruel. Good battle is healthy and constructive, and brings to a marrriage the principal of equal partnership.” -Ann Landers

  • “Often the difference between a successful marriage and a mediocre one consists of leaving about three or four things a day unsaid.” -Harlan Miller
  •  “Motto for the bride and groom: We are a work in progress with a lifetime contract.” -Phyllis Koss

My Earlier post on marriage ..

  • Think: is there anything that could be gained from the argument at this point? If the answer is no, it’s time to stop talking, no matter how angry you are.
  • Don’t repeat yourself. Making your point once is much more powerful than repeating it over and over again. This applies in work situations too. Think of yourself like a lawyer presenting a brief. Say what you think, then keep your mouth shut. “Anything further that you say at this point is going to screw up your best chance at a good outcome,” .
  • Don’t respond to retorts that are designed to make you angry. Ignore them. If your partner or father or friend baits you by saying something like: “You’re just like your mother” or “You always say that!” recognize it for what it is and tune it out.
  • When you hand out advice, don’t require the other person to recognize as the most brilliant suggestion ever. Just say it and move on.
  • When in a argument, always ”Think Before You Speak”.