A new Day has come

Hilary Duff in a song  Metamorphosis

 Every day is a transformation
Every day is a new sensation
Alteration, modification
An incarnation, celebration
Every day is a new equation
Every day is a revelation
Information, Anticipation
Onto another destination

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Life is what you make of it,

Life is what you take from it,

More quotes about Marriage

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•  “More marriages might survive if the partners realized that sometimes the better comes after the worse.” -Doug Larson
•  “A successful marriage requires falling in love many times, always with the same person.” -Mignon McLaughlin
•  “Love requires a willingness to die; marriage, a willingness to live.”
  -Mignon McLaughlin

“All married couples should learn the art of battle as they should learn the art of making love. Good battle is objective and honest-never viscious or cruel. Good battle is healthy and constructive, and brings to a marrriage the principal of equal partnership.” -Ann Landers

• “Often the difference between a successful marriage and a mediocre one consists of leaving about three or four things a day unsaid.” -Harlan Miller
•  “Motto for the bride and groom: We are a work in progress with a lifetime contract.” -Phyllis Koss

My Earlier post on marriage ..

Avoiding Arguments

• Think: is there anything that could be gained from the argument at this point? If the answer is no, it’s time to stop talking, no matter how angry you are.
• Don’t repeat yourself. Making your point once is much more powerful than repeating it over and over again. This applies in work situations too. Think of yourself like a lawyer presenting a brief. Say what you think, then keep your mouth shut. “Anything further that you say at this point is going to screw up your best chance at a good outcome,” .
• Don’t respond to retorts that are designed to make you angry. Ignore them. If your partner or father or friend baits you by saying something like: “You’re just like your mother” or “You always say that!” recognize it for what it is and tune it out.
• When you hand out advice, don’t require the other person to recognize as the most brilliant suggestion ever. Just say it and move on.
• When in a argument, always ”Think Before You Speak”.

take me as i am..

I am tired.. by worries sorrows pain
I need just a shoulder to support me for some time
where are thou , love ?

Marriage..

“A man can either be happy or married!” – me.

A man can be happy with any woman, as long as he does not love her.
- Oscar Wilde